It will be bittersweet. My 5th & final present will arrive today. We will eat out tomorrow at Shoney’s. I say that with much sadness…my 19 year old son may not join us. Bret had a huge fight with his Dad & in some ways it was long overdue. Bret finally said all he needed to say,after 19 years of silence,cuz,Ivan,Bret’s Dad has never allowed us to express our thoughts or feelings…& Ivan doesn’t accept Bret’s lifestyle. Bret is homosexual. Ivan has abused my 2 sons & me mentally & emotionally for 20 years. There was never a way for my sons & me to leave. There’s still no possible way out. Bret did get out & lives in a motel room. My 2 sons & me are mentally & emotionally damaged for the rest of our lives.