Forgiveness is a choice. You choose to forgive & you say it,I forgive you. Just that quick & easy,forgiveness has happened. It doesn’t matter how you feel…its done. This is why we may carry unforgiveness. We think we should feel it or feel a certain way. When we don’t feel it,we think it didn’t happen,& so we keep forgiving,waiting for confirmation that it’s done. There will be no confirmation,not the kind we expect. We want our feelings to confirm forgiveness happened. When you choose to forgive & you say it,that is when its done & complete.